2.”Search of Inner Voice” level, the Ego maturation journey

  • “Adjusting resonance frequencies” – process of increasing self-esteem
  • Stage of the Ego maturation identified in aspects mirrored by the outside world, through needs, attachments and desires
  • Seeker of landmarks, models and guides, in creative opening and acceptance of inner change, with the inherent ups and downs
  • In competition, with itself and with the exterior for continuous validation and protection of self-image
  • The seeds of maturation sprouts in childhood, with the validation of skills manifested in various fields, sprinkled abundantly with those “Five languages of Love ” (Gary Chapman)
  • Self-esteem is thus increasing and is directly proportional to the
    • The filling level of the feedback and love tank
    • Quality of validations received (family/close people)
    • The motivation to be as good as possible in the field where the discovered skills are manifested
    • Quality of education received
    • System of values appropriated
    • Physical and intellectual skills
    • The level of curiosity and imagination
    • The level of ingratification felt compared to what other people are and hold
    • Ability to provide support to a signified number of people through the skills held
  • Skills improvement allows their use as an exchange currency, for obtaining various advantages-admirers and notoriety, financial resources, a degree of increasing comfort, personal satisfaction, fulfillment and emotional balance
  • Growing in an area where acquired skills help us become independent, it is usually enough for our self-esteem to achieve a certain degree of self-sufficiency and to cap, or on the contrary, to make the leap to the next steps
  • Any area in which you perform involves a certain degree of maturity (a very good teen programmer or computer games is expert in the field, but incomplete balanced in the other roles of his life)
  • In order to achieve full maturity, it is necessary to succeed and balance most of the roles in which we have joined (life partner, parent, employee or entrepreneur, teammate in a sports project or team, leisure Manager and Relaxation, member or leader of a politico-administrative/social/voluntary activism organization) and especially to reassess our system of values
  • It is also clearly necessary to achieve – in order to increase awareness – of harmonisation between the following aspects of the lives of each of us – physical health / emotional maturation / balanced relationships / awareness and state presence / habits of prosperity
  • Also now, with the rise of the steps towards the maturity of the Ego and raising awareness, major fluctuations and resettlements take place in the system of values
  • The palette of emotional states, feelings, attitudes and placements are very extensive, with major fluctuations between the extreme aspects characteristic of the level of inner voice search
    • pain, fear, desire, wrath, pride, courage, neutrality, goodwill, acceptance
  • It is the level of a true “hero’s Journey” as a whole, a very important step on the way of awakening
  • The level of maturation is refined with the unbundling of as many squares as possible, identifying in and reporting to external aspects, as many barriers and defensive walls, by recognizing masks, played roles and self-imposed boundaries
  • The process accelerates with the level of acceptance, by renouncing the accuser role directed against the individual and implicitly in judging the immature aspects of the exterior, moving to support actions for awareness offered to them
  • There are transient incursions, increasingly frequent in levels 3 (where very little, the male polarity/energy is still prevalent) and 4 (in which the female and male polarities/energies have balanced)
  • Any traumatic event can initiate the process of crisis of psycho-spiritual transformation (due to separation, abandonment or loss)
  • The crises of psycho-spiritual transformation, unaccompanied by actions towards maturity, lead to the deepening of vulnerabilities caused by various traumatic events or by cumulation of unsupported life situations