We define “egotic behavior” – characteristic of people with an immature Ego, as any behavior manifested in various forms of accessing empire of fear, worries and anxiety, resulting in:
- defending an identity (at least one of the daily roles) at any cost,
- impaired identification, failure to meet expectations, the way they were anticipated and desired,
- dependence on ideas, situations and beings,
- identifying with lost things, which can give rise to destructive emotions – thus providing levers of manipulation.
Ego is a natural one, generated by Being as a defense mechanism.
It defines the complexity of our characteristics and preferences, fully perfectible through awareness, anticipating maturity and reaching the full balance.
Ego – evolving stages – understanding, acceptance, embrace, maturation and dissolution …
The immature ego is the one that determines the multitude of contradictory manifestations that unbalance and puts us in difficulty in certain circumstances of life, leading to the lack of accompaniment and validation by those around us whom all this and not our Being has so many need…
High vibration values of the mature manifestation of the Ego can not be communicated to non-mature Ego.
Identification works at all levels of manifestation of beings with consciousness. You acknowledge that even in pet animals, who get the moral values that their masters believe.
Speaking speculation, perhaps one of the reasons you read these lines was the search, even unconscious, to answer the question: “how about not being disturbed by anything that happens to you?” How can you get a state of peace from which you can not even remove the “order” of the prosecutor’s office? 🙂 You can benefit from a lasting inner peace, similar to Budha’s “middle path”, without the daily sinuous ups and downs …
The same questions and many others have probably, like you, more or less known, great thinkers of all time … I think, however, that those who enjoyed the answers were the ones who -checked and integrated vulnerabilities, turning their weaknesses into strengths. Those who have openly accepted the human, evolutionary but perishable condition … (implicitly the second law of thermodynamics – referring to the entropic direction in which the perceptible universe is heading …), without too much conscience due to this state of of things … 🙂
Allow yourself, therefore, to walk without fear in every place of your soul. Both in the ones you have ennobled with the most beautiful memories, but also those that you have trapped behind traumatic situations. Situations that you strive to avoid with obstinacy, without giving them time and understanding, even when your life always brings you back and forth …
Only when you open and succeed, you can say that you have brought balance every moment of your life, fully completed by the complementarity of the integrated aspects. Bright and dark shadows of human being.
Create your daily habit of observing, identifying and giving space to your own Ego – the “pet” we carry in the leash and which, in fact, drives us only where he wishes. Give him the opportunity to get away more and more … Give your being, finally, the chance to breathe unhindered. Abdominal if you can …! 🙂
Release it from his utopian fear of continuously taking care of your being … YES, you understand well – release him consciously, your Ego …! 🙂
Your being is in balance – thermal, bioelectric, chemical, hemodynamic, and so on … it self-regulates, it has the healing capacity without your intervention. All you have to do is give it in a reasonable proportion, the necessary ones …
The ego is the one that scraps through the most hidden nooks of memory, always bringing your traumas and fears accumulated and classified with meticulousness. He is the one who craves, with a tumultuous impatience, to the fulfillment of your aspirations, at any price and by any means. Otherwise, as natural as possible. He is the one who is in imbalance, the one who is afraid.
Ego is a virtual appearance, a special and personalized “software” created for each of us by the “great universal programmer” to give us uniqueness in diversity. A “software” that has assimilated in the process of evolution, many lines of code that are altered, mostly written by us, under the pressure of fear, or taken over without discernment through the collective mind.
In such confusing situations, through the alternative generated programs, inserting itself into the natural processes of functioning of the organism, it only exaggerates the cerebral cortex in a limited emotional spectrum. Thus, disturbing messages are sent to various receptors located at the level of each organ through neurotransmitters that can induce somatization when they exceed normal limits …
Recognizes and rewrites altered code lines of your valuable “software”, which gives you the uniqueness and the beauty of the one you are by developing your skills and implicitly activating as many of the forms of intelligence as you have been given, and you will begin with a new life so desirable …
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Thank you, with gratitude, for accompanying …!
We suggest that you take a step in your inner self and carefully look at the whole truth fully contained in your Being, without looking excessively and repetitively abroad.
Do not forget to always carry in your soul and mind the playful spirit, aware that every thing and every creature is everything and nothing at the same time – a hologram of divinity – a common representation of all things, using quantum bricks – protons, electrons, neutrons …
Breathe deeply a few times … smiles more … and, if necessary, take it without fear from the beginning …! 🙂